Find someone who isn't part of a cult. I would never give up on him because he got nobody else. A lot of shared hobbies, interests, life goals. And of course, everyone has a different experience. It is helpful to know that there are others who are experiencing the same emotions and to hear about your coping methods and advice. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. You stop talking at all. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas.
When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church. But I don't know that he does the same for me. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. I'm engaged to a junior intern and we're supposed to get married soon. I am so grateful to have had the ability to instill in them that family comes first. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships.
The hardworking doctors won't even get the time or energy for affairs. It is hard work. Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him. Do you think that is too draining too. And his wife is angry and unappreciative and has no idea how difficult his profession is. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. I also know that my husband's job as a Surgeon is before us my kids and I. If it's the former I'm more inclined to think he's being self-centered in your relationship.
To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. I know he loves me with all of his heart. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. I had a lot of things going on in my personal life as well, so maybe a relationship wouldn't have worked regardless. Good luck to you. Basically nothing like reality. Last year I trained for and ran a marathon, which was a pretty good distraction, but with the move recently and work being quieter than usual I'm finding it tougher than I have before.
