I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here. The Church does not recognize homosexual marriage, and does not condone sexual activity outside of marriage. She will insist on raising her children in the Mormon church. If you do not have a lot of time together, make every second count. Good Questions to Ask Someone.
Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense". The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. Consider a mix of activities that are inexpensive, and allow you to talk and learn about one another. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens.
This is really a conversation you need to have with him. And of course, everyone has a different experience. But I wish he would call or text me or maybe make a sweet gesture every once in awhile. Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy.
It sounds like you HAVE done your best in the past. He apologized up and down. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. These past few weeks have made me very depressed.