These topics are important for any Blueprint Type, but getting an education about safe and proper play in the Kink realm is particularly important. Just like the rebels, the bad guys and girls, the individualists, the rule-breakers, those who seem to want to be set apart, the truth is usually that these folks seek acceptance. They do NOT seek approval, they seek to be completely accepted. As they are. And when we are not, we tend to pull back into our shells, leaving a gaping hole where our longing and desire lives. But, in order to be accepted as we are, like the Kinky Blueprint, we have to first accept ourselves for who we are. So, if you are turned on by rough but safe and consensual — always safety and consent, first! In fact, a great way to explore those things you crave IS to explore more of the kink aspect of eroticism. Once given that place to play and to BE…the levels of fulfillment that they can achieve are mindblowing. When the Kinky Blueprint is allowed freedom and safety to fully explore, they can also take their lovers to exciting new heights.
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How do you find out your sexual blueprint?
Try these: time management relationship advice healthy lifestyle money wealth success leadership psychology. This piece was specially written for the Tony Robbins blog by world-renowned sex expert Jaiya Ma. Now, how many books have your read on sex and erotic passion? Not as many? Sure, many people have had plenty of formal sex education.
Learn Your Erotic Blueprint™ Type to get deeper connection and greater sexual satisfaction.
Through more than two decades of client observation and clinical research she discovered a map of arousal that reveals your specific erotic language, a revolutionary framework to create deeper connection and sexual satisfaction. Think of your Erotic Blueprint as your sexual love language; a tool to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and how to have the best sex of your life. One of the reasons I wanted to bring Jaiya on the show is because so often the sex advice we receive tailors only to one type of blueprint. Our society gets its sexual education from Cosmopolitan, Playboy, and even-less-realistic, porn. Part of living your fullest life, is loving the deepest and experiencing the greatest ecstasy between the sheets.
Energetic — Someone who is turned on by anticipation and yearning. Could also even be turned off by too much physical intimacy, too quick. Sensual — Someone who is turned on by having all their senses ignited. Ie: Flowers, chocolate, great-smelling candles. They also really like a lot of physical closeness and intimacy. They have a tendency to get analytical and stuck in their heads. Sexual — Nudity! May need a feeling of extreme certainty about sex happening, and may plow over other blueprints. Kinky — People who are turned on by taboo.