Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him. I am so happy to have found this blog. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Something that will help you stand out is a strong masculine frame. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple.




No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. Or, I might be in class. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. Break up with her. She will insist on raising her children in the Mormon church. For any woman who does not want to sacrifice her career goals….
I was lucky with my TBM. It is an act of faith. Keep the relationship casual. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. You are atheist and that's not changing. Yes, it is bad.
It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. Try to find out his schedule in detail. We have been together for just over a year and married for 3 months. So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag.