Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness.
In the end people have to make their own decisions. I do try to send little texts or call when I have time but not as much as he'd like. But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. I I must also say that some of them truly do have affairs even wit the best of spouses. So yea, I blame residency for his general 'unavailability', and I would assume that is the case with your guy too.
If we can say them together, great; if not. We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. At 30, you just give up.
It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. Twitter did not respond. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. Things have been mostly good, but there are always challenges to deal with. When he does, he is often quiet and exhausted.
