That was hard on my relationship and I had to give up on my dream of being a computer programmer. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love. I was thinking the same thing when I read this. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. What if she absolutely despises sex. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in.
I think we date twice a year. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up.
You are a good person and she can see that. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. How some find time for Affairs is beyond me!!. She cried when you proclaimed your love of goodness because, in part, it was a sign that you weren't broken and desperate for Mormonism. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies.
I feel like I belong to a sisterhood who understand my life. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. If someone is going to cheat on you, it has nothing to do with their profession. Yup, know how that feels.
